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I’ve gotta do tags one by one. Today I’m gonna complete a tag from a pretty babe, named YienYien.

Image adapted from here

INSTRUCTIONS:

1. The tagged victims have to come up with eight different points of his/her perfect lover.

2. Have to mention the gender of his/her perfect lover.

3. Tag eight other victims to join this game and leave a comment on their blog.

4. If you are tagged the second time, there’s no need to do this AGAIN.

5. Lastly, most importantly, HAVE. FUN. DOING. IT

Gender : Male

My 8 points for an IDEAL LOVER
I think all girls would have the same thoughts and taste. Almost the same I might say. So here it goes. And doesn’t mean these things must be in my future husband or my boyfriend right now.. Just it’s my ideal lover. No one’s perfect, right?? But we can just dream can’t we??

Edited : A blogger commented I’m more showing off my guy instead of doing the tag. So I’m gonna erase off the red things yea??

1. Sincere & Loyalty

I need a guy to be sincere & loyal to me. If he would want to go out with girls, at least let me know who are they. I would want to be friends with them too.. I would let my boyfriend/husband to know all my guy friends like what I do to my current boyfriend now.

2. Understanding and able to be my best friend

My guy must be my best friend too. I come from a problematic family and I am very sensitive towards anything even sad soppy movies. I can cry till dawn. If I have a fight with my guy, I can’t sleep till the problem between us is solve. Imagine how problematic myself is too!!
I need a best friend who is also my guy. Cause he would be the one knowing every inch of my family, myself and everything around me. Not that my best friend wouldn’t be there. They would but some things I rather share with my guy and advices about girl stuffs of course head to my best friends.
And sharing problems and secrets together would mean alot to me. This means that my guy trust me, and looking forward to tell me every thing. Even the tiniest thing ever. And I’m a good listener too.. !! (not to brag)

Plus imagine when we grow old, I need a companion who can talk to. Our kids would be furthering their studies and married. Leaving me and my guy. So I need a best friend too.

3. Appearance – looks and the body

Must be decent looking. No long hair or extra hair on the face. Too messy and hairy on the face itself makes me feel he’s untidy. Not every handsome guys are loyal and would be with you for long. So I don’t hope for a totally prince charming. Prince charming at heart is the best!! Cause it will stay for long and that’s the real beauty!

Sexy eyes would be an advantage cause I would like to stare at them.*swoons* When he smiles, his eyes would shine.

Tough manly chest & arms.. yes, I’m a girl who love to be hug by muscular arms and lie on those manly chest. Manly chest doesn’t mean have to be SUPER HAIRY OKAY!!!! And of course not till the stage of a muscle builder. No offense but I don’t really admire veins popping out so obvious and shinny oily body. I think it’s disgusting.

Cannot be fairer than me. Makes me looks like.. nevermind. The thing is every one always think that I’m either a Malay girl or a native one. Good thing no one ever think that I’m an Indian if not I’ll faint on the spot. Anyways, it’s not bad to be that way, another race. It’s good cause if other people would say bad things about you, you know..!! But when I’m with my guy, I want to be known as my blood stated!

I also have this weird thing about feet & toes. My guy must ALWAYS have clean feet. Must be bigger than mine. If possible with a lovely and cute pair set of toes! Toe nails must be neat and not damaged. Usually I’ll look at a guy’s feet for no reason. Okay la.. not only guys, girls too! But guys I’m more particular. Shows a lot of his personalities to me. I don’t know why I have this odd fetish!!

Tummy must not be too big and bloated look. I don’t mind if my guy has how many packs but not too many as 6 cause it’s creepy. Feeling he’s like the muscle builder guys!! Not too obvious, I can feel them it’s very very fine indeed. If my guy has a bloated tummy, it must not be as big as if my guy is pregnant. Just enough to feel the pillow-ness. I love hugs remember…??

Not too skinny… If too skinny how the hell am I gonna hug him!! Hug bonesss???
And it will make me look fatter lorh.. A girlfriend/wife is the lovely image in a picture frame. Cannot make her much uglier than you!! And not too light la.. Cannot be lighter than me. Imagine my wedding I want my guy to carry me to my bed.. LOL
If light how can he carry me.. The romantic scene would be a night mare!!
Not too meaty too okay.. Just right.. A guy who wear M size would be nice!!

4. Mature yet playful and a joker

As you all know I’m a childish and playful person. I’m shy to strangers but if you want me to be myself, I need to meet up with you for like a week or two and TA DAH my real self appears. Therefore, my guy must be mature yet playful. Both of us cannot be childish if not misunderstandings will sure occur. Playful is a must cause I need fun, laughter and hugs!!
Laughter comes when my guy have to have the skills to joke. I must admit that, many girls love guys who can joke. And guys who loves to joke, love seeing girls laughing, right??

Mature also means must control the anger. Anger management is important. I can be patient with you but I have limits. Every one will have the tick off limit.
What’s much important is, no cursing or rude word used. I do not respect guys who curse their woman.

5. Romantic and Caring

These two qualities must come together. Romantic yet caring.. My romantic is not all those poems and flowers for no reason. I admire the guy of YiPing. He sends her flowers, chocolates and stuff when she managed to do something right. Or even when he thought of her. But of course not all costly stuff cause if my guy do give me all those luxurious stuffs, I’ll be spoil. Who knows I’ll looking forward to what they buy rather than what they feel towards me.
This also doesn’t mean I’ll go for guys who has all the $$. Most important thing is that, he remembers what are the important days and dates, try effort to get me something. Even hand made or making our pictures into a cute couple album. That would be very very lovely!

While caring is the most important key. This is because, I can get easily sick. Especially when I do not have enough sleep for a night or countless nights. Travelling by air, sea or land I’ll get sick easily too. I can’t get used to other places at night. I only can sleep on my bed. Even if I’m stress, my skin sickness would be back any minute.

6. Observant

My guy must be very observant cause I that kind of person. I observe things, therefore sometimes you do see me as a quiet person but the truth is, my mind and eyes are wondering and observing things. He has to understand me inside out. What I like what I don’t like. What I love and what disgust me. Even the tiniest things.
I know that for SOME guys it’s not easy to observe girls. They have to be told so guys can remember. But we girls like to be surprised and pampered all of the sudden. That’s a way to a girl’s heart. Romantically too!
A guy who really observe and care to understand his girl inside out, means that she means way lot to him. I have to admit, girl’s mind and attitude are very odd. Hard to predict especially the time of the month, right? But that doesn’t mean you have to avoid her or make things worse. You have to see what’s the key to her heart through those stupid angers and mood swings!!
Like mine, my guy have to be always there for me and hug me for no reason. That’s the best medicine for the time of my month. WHICH DOESN’T APPLY TO ALL GIRLS OKAY!!!!!

7. Age & Where he stands in the family

The title might be crazy but it’s not. Age, must be not younger than me. Same age would be okay. I cope with guys who are the same age as me everytime. And yes, all my boyfriends are same age as me. Honestly speaking, I wonder how is it feel to have an older boyfriend. If he’s older than me, must be even number of gap age. Don’t ask me why. Just maybe it’s my feelings in these.

Okay, the next part would be the where-he-stands-in-the-family. No.. Not about money or status or inheritance thingy when his parents die or what so ever. I have this believe that eldest kid of the family suits the youngest child of the family. About the middle child and such, I have no idea. But I did blogged about it last year if not mistaken. And it’s really true though. It’s not about religion beliefs or such. It’s just eldest child in family usually has lots of responsibilities while the youngest have all the eye attention looking after them. It is also depending on the family treating the child itself. So since I’m the eldest, I only go for the youngest son. If you try to think about it, it make sense..

8. Non of the 4 out of 5 bad things that a guy would do

A guy has 5 bad things in them. Okay this doesn’t include ego and stuffs.
1 – Alcoholic
2 – Smoker
3 – Gambler
4 – Womanizer
5 – Heavy Eater

I do not go for guys who has the characteristics of 1 till 4. Number 5 I can tolerate with it. I also have to eat don’t I?
1 – Alcoholic – Due to my dad’s attitude since young watching him getting drunk and do stuffs that it’s inhuman, I do not wish to marry to a guy who loves drinking for no reason. So beer lovers, shoo!!

2 – Smoker – I do not want our kids from a bad gen that’s all. Smoking too much also bad for 2nd hand smokers like me. So I rather not take the risks. Besides, it burns money in pocket. Can keep that money for investment of such right?

3 – Gambler – One day a real hardcore gambler would end up broke and lusting for money from other people. That’s very bad. Future wise, bad. A guy who loves you will be LOVED cause he loves winning and he might run away and you’ll be the one paying all the debts. Gambling only during festive seasons like Chinese New Year is toleratable, just do know your limit.

4 – Womanizer – Isn’t it enough to get a girl instead of keeping the girl as your girl friend/ wife as a factory of making babies or spare tyre. You have only one penis mind you. And you promised to look after us in front of our parents and churches!! So stop looking for younger girls, you can cause lots of trouble not only for you but for us too. If you do get other girls pregnant, either you’ll regret or happy with the bills and payments for the mother and your kid. I know you’re rich but you pull down your family name.
As for the single men who loves to see on girls and disturbing them, flirting and such. One day you will find yourself heaps of trouble for not able to get the right girl. Who knows the one you hurt was the right one. Karma baby.. remember yea..

(-____-) Realizing I typed alot of crap, this is the part I have to pass this tag.

1. Fabian @ My boogieman @ Pornie @ PHD dude who has no time for his friends

2. Sarah Anne

3. Aneeqa

4. Hannah

5. RoseWong

6. Annna

7. Levian

8. Jojo

- happy tagging people -